You probably remember your own mother clutching the armrests with white knuckles, or compulsively pushing her right foot to the metal, as if to brake, even though there was no such pedal on the passenger side of the car. Is it possible that you, too, now that your own teen is learning to drive, will exhibit these strange behaviors?
It is not only possible, but likely. Of all the rites of passage that teens go through while under their parents' roof, learning to drive usually gives their parents the most anxiety. The process is also a rite of passage for the parent, who must try to get through this sometimes challenging experience with as much cheerfulness and helpfulness as possible. The sense of responsibility you feel to help your teen to become a safe and courteous driver is very real. You don't need any statistics about accidents involving young drivers to realize the importance of carrying out that responsibility. What you do need is an action plan for approaching this project of teaching your teen to drive -- and perhaps some tips from parents who have experience with the process. Read up on the subject, take into consideration the personality of your own son or daughter, and try to set realistic expectations. With patience, allowing your teen to make slow but certain progress, this can be a time of bonding and positive experience for you both.